Counselling

Counselling offers a regular space and time to talk about your worries and to explore difficult feelings with a trained professional.

 

Our qualified, experienced and dedicated counsellor will listen to you without judging or criticising you. They can help you deal with negative or confusing thoughts and feelings that you have. Their role is to be there for you, respect your views and help you to find your own insight and understanding of your problems.

 

A relationship of trust between you and your counsellor is paramount to successful counselling.

 

It is a confidential service and no information will be passed on to anyone else without your consent. The only exception to this is if you, or someone else, are at risk of harm. Please contact us and the member of our team will be happy to provide relevant explanations.

 

Please contact us if you want to find out more about our counselling service. You can also                   if you want to learn more about counselling and other forms of talking therapies.

 


 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Counselling

A poem

 

When I ask you to listen to me and you start giving advice, you have not done what I asked.

When I asked you to listen to me and you begin to tell me why I shouldn't feel that, you are trampling on my feelings.

When I asked you to listen to me and you feel you have to do something to solve my problem, you have failed me, strange as that may seem.

Listen! All I asked was that you listen, not talk or do - just hear me.

Advise is cheap.

And I can do for myself: I'm not helpless. Maybe discouraged and faltering but not helpless.

When you do something for me that I can and need to do for myself, you contribute to my fear and weakness.

But when you accept as a simple fact that I do feel what I feel, no matter how irrational, then I can quit trying to convince you and can get about the business of understanding what's behind this irrational feeling. And when that's clear , the answers are obvious and I don't need advice.

Irrational feelings make sense when we understand what's behind them.

So please listen and just hear me. And, if you want to talk, wait a minute for your turn and I'll listen to you

 

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